Commitment is a very important piece of a relationship, and it haas to come from both sides. Scott Stanley is a researcher that has spent most of his career examining how couples handle their relationships. Most recently he haas been talking and writing about “Asymmetrical commitments'” or relationships where one person is more “all in” than the other. Ho has a great video on You Tube using two children on a seesaw (or teeter-totter, if you prefer) as an example of the phenomenon of an asymmetrical relationship. Here’s the Link: see what you think.